First time blow// job??? it is going to be my first time giving a guy a blow/// job any advice and yes i am at good age for this and i am ready it i just want it to feel good for him and i think i will do a bad job so please help |
| your cartoon picture looks like a little girl, stay away from ***** |
How do you give a good ******** (first time)? I'm 18 and I'm ready. I'm just worried cause I don't know how. Tell me everything about what to do. |
| First of all I'm thinkin' if my cock is in your mouth that nothing could really go wrong. |
First Blow jobs and STD's? A few days ago my girlfriend gave me my first ********. It was her first time ever giving one. Because it was both out first times, is there still a chance of passing STD's? What do I/ We do to find out if we have any to pass to each other? |
If it were really both your first times, then there is nothing to worry about. STDs can only be gotten from someone who got them from someone else. Absolute, mutual monogamy prevents STDs. Here's a good guide to information about STDs
www.findingdulcinea.com/guides/He… |
Can you get a mouth disease from giving blow jobs? okay, so i gived my boyfriend for the first time a ********,
the back of my throat is sore, nd i was just wondering if it could from giving him a ********, or just a sore throat? |
| tictacks...Yes you can get a mouth "disease" that way. While you might have gotten a sore throat that way, you could also have gotten one of the sexually transmitted diseases such as herpes, gonorrhea, or syphilis while an HIV infection is much rarer. Right now a throat culture or Rapid Strep Test would be a wise way to go as you learn more about STIs and appropriate self-protection. |
First time hand job/********...no idea what to do..? I'm almost 21 and I have never had a real serious relationship and I don't usually hook up randomly so I have never gone further with a guy then making out or taking my shirt off. Trust me, I have wanted to many times and have had many opportunities, but I'm always to scared about not knowing what to do that we just end up cuddling.
Anyways, me and this guy have had a thing ( I don't know if you want to call it that, we used to see eachother maybe once a month but lately its been like once a week)..for a couple years now. We just hang out and the most we've done is make out and I've taken my shirt off. He always tries to go further, but I shut him down. I know it sounds like he is just interested in sex, but if he is then why would he keep trying after 2 years.., plus he's told people he likes me and he's driven over 2 hours just to see me before and he's asked me out quite a few times, I always say no ONLY because if we start dating I know he is going to be expecting sex or oral or something, and I want to be sexual with him before we start dating (I know it sounds stupid..). I know the right guy will respect me and wait, but I WANT to be sexual with him so don't get the wrong idea.
Anyways, I'm not scared about the actual sex, I'm just scared about not knowing what to do when it comes to handjobs or blowjobs...never given one and I don't want to be bad at it......do you have any tips for a first timer? (he is experienced)..please don't say just ask him what he likes, I would feel weird asking that..thanks.. |
| As a recent convert, I can assure you that lube is an excellent idea. This may seem a little forward for a first-timer, but trust me, he'll love it! It will absolutely enhance his experience and pleasure. A real benefit for you, as an inexperienced hand-girl, will be that it's near impossible to do anything that will cause discomfort to his knob, once you have a handful of lube on the go. Ok, so first of all you just need to have a bit of a sexy fumble on the outside of his pants. Once you're sure he's risen to the occasion, slowly unbutton his gentleman's trouser area and say things like "Oh my what have we got here?". This is guaranteed to get him totally raging hard fyi. Once he's all unleashed, say something like, "I have just the thing to help with this swelling". (This is really sexy and innocent at the same time, because you'll sound like a nurse, and everyone knows that nurses are really hot). Then reach into your purse and discreetly pull out your lube, applying it to your dominant hand. He'll probably be so turned on by now, the veins in his balls will be throbbing like a panda in a hammock. Then all you have to do is smear your palm all over his engorged slab of man-pork, starting at the "head", then slithering deliberately (not accidentally) towards the base. Remember to pay particular attention to the area nearest the "head" end. Lick his ears and stuff and say really horny things like "You ******* sexy twit" while you grip his meat and vigorously tug it every which way like you're trying to empty a stubborn bottle of ketchup. Good luck. Enjoy. Hope that helps. Have a hug from me x |
********/Hand job first time advice? Hay guys,
I've been with a girl for the past two years and now I'm with this guy and at a total loss. I just need the basics, not a million tips so help me out please,
Thanks, Rach x |
| Blow is definitely better than hand. |
Are blow*jobs less satisfying with a condom on? Are blow*jobs less satisfying with a condom on?
i'm planning on giving my boyfriend his first, and my first time giving a, blow*job.
I feel more comfortable using a condom, but i don't mind without (we are both virgins, and both have been tested for stds)
does using a condom reduce his pleasure or more difficult for him to finish?
thankyou for any advice!
p.s... flavored condoms? |
| no condom |
Palpitations in my throat after ******** and the first time i have sex? palpitations in my throat after ******** and the first time i have sex?
- i did sex yesterday and this morning for first time ...
i dont know if i got this cause i gave a ********...
and i think i am nervous that i might gotten an STD that my heartbeats go fast and thats why i feel it in my throat .. but idk ...
or u think i got an STD and if so which one? i have no redness, no weird spots or bumbs,no pain, and my throat feels kinds warm ....
we wear condom for everything else but not for ********(s)
i am 17 and him he is 19 but he has gotten in bed with 3 people = 2 guys and a girl but he always condom but NOT for ********(s)...
also i have no allergies .... |
Dear Worried:
Congratulations on Having Sex with First-Time! After a wonderful experience, here comes the fear.
If you listen to the doctors about STD testing, then you might find yourself freaking out for the next three months.However, you're in luck.
Please Calm down. No STD will kill you by today. You have years to come. So relax.
Palpitations in your throat means that your heart is beating. Your hormone is racing after sex, don't worry about it. You have no STDs, and you should avoid having sex with a person that sleeps around. If you value your life and your sanity.
Please get tested before going to bed with anyone other than yourself. A blood donation to the blood bank and blood testing for herpes viruses ordered from your general Dr. will help you resolve your concerns over sexual transmitted diseases. That's the safest way to do it (and the cheapest). Sex ed never taught you that.
just live your life normally then you should be fine. Avoid sharing food or towels with anyone else. |
******** for the first time? I gave my boyfriend a ******* last night for the first time. I'm pretty sure he came because my mouth was kinda gross feeling with some thick substance. Can i get anything in my mouth by doing this? Sick or anything? He's never done anything with a girl..so it's our first time for everything with each other. HELPPPP!! |
If your boyfriend had a sexually transmitted disease, there is a chance you could get it from him if he semen contacts you. (It sounds like that's what happened.) But if he is disease-free, he can't give you anything. You can't infect another person unless you are infected yourself.
Since you were his first, then you are almost certainly safe. As long as the two of you are exclusive with each other, then you will be okay. |